How to meet with parents?
Now I will tell you about what rules should be followed when meeting with parents. You will learn how to meet your parents in such a way that you will not be ashamed before your chosen one or the chosen one.
How to meet with parents
The first and most important advice - do not chat too much. If you are prone to lengthy arguments about something and generally like to talk, save it for future meetings, and to begin your acquaintance with the parents of your soul mate it is not a good idea to talk a lot. No matter how clever your thoughts may be, they will simply consider you a talker. Further, etiquette prescribes to contact the parents of the chosen one or the chosen one with all possible politeness, answering questions calmly and correctly. If the parents ask a question that is inappropriate from your point of view, in no case raise your voice and turn everything into a joke: for example, ask your half to respond. Try to observe good manners in everything: if you don’t know, study the etiquette of table behavior before your acquaintance in order to avoid an uncomfortable situation.Of course, do not forget to contact the parents of your halves by name and patronymic and on “You” - familiarity is not allowed here. Well, now let's get to the specific recommendations for girls and boys.
How to meet the guy's parents
Girls should always remember that when they meet a guy’s parents, their main ornament is modesty. Therefore, no matter how explosive your temperament may be, restrain yourself and do not say much. If the parents' question is inconvenient for you, make an embarrassed look and let the guy answer it - he will find something to say to his parents. A modest and calm girl (albeit outwardly) is much more likely to please the parents of her chosen one than the impetuous and talker. Then, when you get to know each other better, you can allow yourself some “liberties” (of course, within reasonable limits), and when you first meet you should be much more restrained and demonstrate - no, not timidity, but just some modesty and respect for parents boyfriend Do not start the conversation first, and if you have any questions, first contact your beloved. Parents' correct questions should be answered calmly and politely - in the end, they have the right to ask them.To incorrect questions, if they suddenly arise, you should not answer directly: you can either laugh it off, or ask for support from your boyfriend, with a look or a hint in a whisper.
How to meet with the girl's parents
The guy in front of the girl’s parents should show himself at the same time as a restrained and confident young man. This means that you need to be able to keep up the conversation, communicate politely and culturally. If a girl can still somehow forgive her talkativeness, then excessive talkativeness on the part of the guy may not create the most favorable impression of him on the part of the girl’s parents. What good, still consider the eyes of yapping and windbag, and not a simple talker. Why do I dwell on it in such detail? The fact is that many parents have a certain influence on their children, and it’s good if your chosen one is able to think and make decisions individually. If there is a certain influence of parents on her, the loving guy should do everything possible (of course, within the framework of etiquette) in order to please them. That's why it is worth a little restrain your temperament and seem more restrained and calm.