Stress as a lifestyle
Did you notice that people in big cities become busy and irritable because they are busy and irritable? Let's see when there is a substitution of concepts inside our consciousness and how to avoid the process for the sake of the process.
Environment us last time dictates a number of rules, unwritten laws, stereotypes. You must be: a) Successful, b) Secured, c) Employed, d) You should not be bothered with little things - you are a serious person The girls and women, and even more to the above added: a) Status, b) Explicit huge time spent on their appearance, albeit without taste, c) Such "sweet and sweetly childish" naivety. All of these stereotypes as for men and women for a lot more.
All these qualities are broadcast to us. The world around us, as a kind of a recipe for a successful person. And now the man is already busy so that would be like. Work and home, rest and leisure become mandatory program with well-defined activities to achieve the goal.
The main thing.
As a result of one way or another personal development a number of qualities, from the stereotypes given at the beginning, and so will be developed. The main problem of modern megacities is that the goal was not personal development, and a number of visual properties.
So one of these properties successful man and became in our head stress. It began to seem to us an integral part of our identity, a calling card that characterizes busy person. Remember: Busy a person is not one who is tired of everyone, but one who can and has time for everyone to help. Such a business card, much better to tell about you than a nervous state.