Top 7 rules how to raise a man out of a son
Every woman wants to make a real man out of her son. And at the same time, every woman in the depths of her soul is sure that all men without exception are far from ideal, if not more. What is the matter, and how to educate boys properly?
The boy should be trained by the father. Moreover, since birth. His birth, not from the birth of his son.
Because family upbringing is not moralizing. The boy copies the pattern of his father’s behavior, not his words.
Question moms- Do you want your son to become the same as your husband?
A man must be strong. What does it mean? Be able to make decisions and take responsibility for these decisions.
Question to parents- Does your son learn to make decisions and take responsibility for them?
Decision and responsibility - two sides of the same coin. Freedom on the one hand. Restriction of freedom on the other.
A man makes decisions, but his woman is responsible for them. This is not a man, but a sissy. The man.
The man does not make decisions, but is responsible for them. This is not a man. A henpecked. Little man
Freedom begins with self-restraint.
There is such an Eastern saying "The first to drink water is camels, because they do not have hands. The second men drink, because they have no patience. The last women drink. ”
The scheme of education (for the popes):
“The best is for mom. Because she is a girl. Then the cat - because he is helpless and dependent on us. And then we are with you. Because we are men. ”
At what age does a baby become a man?
From the moment of realizing yourself as a person. Psychologists know this age. Three years. Yes, mommies. Three years.
From this age it is necessary to constantly inspire his son - “You are a man!”.
From this age it is necessary to teach him the normal masculine word “Must!”
A man should:Be able to endure. Be able to overcome yourself. Be able to make mistakes. Be able to be gentle. Be able to be rude. Be able to be different. Be responsible for your words. A man should be able to be.
The child should be treated as an adult.This does not mean that you should not play with him, do not forgive his mistakes, do not indulge him, do not smile at him.
A child can be mistaken. He explores the world around him, explores its boundaries. Do you know why men are like children? Because men, too, are pushing the boundaries of this world. A man should be restless. He is the driving force of humanity. And the woman - saving power, if that.
You can not punish the boy for mistakes. They need to be corrected. Him. Itself. Independently. But with your hint and help.
Good sons to you!