What are women suitable for after 50 years?
Often a youthful beautiful woman who has reached the turn of 50-60 years, is condemned for excessive love of life. They say that she, the old woman, grandchildren to nurse, cook soup, and knit mittens. And she, an egoist, is only busy with herself. In the pool goes, changes clothes, with a man came together after a divorce.
Yes, modern grandmothers are like that. They are very different from those Soviet grandmothers, whom we remember from our childhood. So different, that even to compare is ridiculous.
Recently, I came to visit my mother, and noticed that over the many years of my absence, our yard has not changed much. Almost all those grandmothers who threatened me with a finger as a child and did not allow me to tear off the flowerbeds were alive and well. They also planted flowers under the window, walked with dogs and talked on the benches.
- What the hell? - I thought. - After all, almost thirty years have passed!
If all these women are still alive and healthy, then it turns out that then they were 45-55 years old? And that they voluntarily and completely consciously spent almost half of their lives in the guise of grandmothers in colorful dressing gowns engaged in planting flowers and gossip?
The current youth is waiting for a completely different generation of grandmothers.They are tightened, externally and internally, trying to be on the edge, they work even after retirement. They do not live, but live. They put off taking care of themselves too much for later, so now to miss the moment.
Fewer grandmothers want to sit with their grandchildren or priests sit on the benches - they can often be found in the theater, on a walk, on a trip. And thank God!
Another thing is that this whole celebration of life is desirable to somehow pay. One may speak about beautiful women at the age of “who is for”, but in fact you have to pay for everything, and for active, beautiful maturity too. And what to pay, if you are already a woman of pre-retirement age from the age of 50? You may not even have a climacter, but for employers you are not second-rate marriage?
Welcome to the shop, lady! What trips and trips to you - except to the local clinic. What beauticians - cucumber smear. You can have fun - drive the kids from the flower beds.
Why am I saying all this? News tells us unequivocally - raising the retirement age is inevitable, and the ladies will soon retire not from 55, but from 62. Soon they will officially announce this. But is it bad? In the end, everything flows, everything changes, life expectancy is growing.Cultural traditions are also changing - no one wants to be written off the accounts ahead of time, everyone wants to be elegant ladies, and not “old money lenders”. And you have to pay for your desires.