Which man suits you?
Partner, ideal in all respects, such, as shown in romantic films, in life does not exist. But around there are enough imperfect men with whom you could be happy. But here are the questions you ask yourself: What do you want? Which man suits you? Are there ways to find out about it, and this article will be discussed in this article.
Women's intuition will not deceive
We tend to doubt, and therefore, despite external well-being, female intuition forces us to be hesitant and cautious. Which man suits me? - you ask. You might be surprised, but it's not hard to understand. Five rules will be able to help you determine, almost unmistakably, whether a man is suitable or not.
- If a man humiliates, offends or offends you, and this was not once, accidentally or under the influence of difficult circumstances - you need to part with it immediately. You can not link your life with a man who will slowly but surely lower your self-esteem.Insulting words has the same effect as physical violence. In no case can not stay with such a man. To take a difficult decision, of course, it will hurt, but it is temporary.
- If a man is not ready to accept you as you are and is trying to change you - this relationship has no future. You do not even need to try to remake yourself to please him. For the sake of a man who requires you to break yourself, your character, you should not do this in any way. You do not forgive him or yourself.
- See if he keeps his promise. Not only in relation to you. If a man is not capable or unwilling to keep his word, he definitely does not suit you.
- If a man is quick-tempered so much that he is ready to throw up a scandal because of any little things, the best solution in this situation will be to part with him immediately. Of course, the relationship between two people can not be perfect, you can not do without quarrels. But, if this happens all the time, then why do you need life “like a cat with a dog”.
- The tendency of men to discrimination, no matter what grounds, on the basis of racism, nationalism or chauvinism ... Let's not dig so deep.If he treats badly and negatively about your relatives and friends, then you should think carefully about whether a man is right for me?
Write down on a piece of paper everything you want to get from a relationship with a man. If the man who is with you now as a potential elect does not correspond, at least to one of the principles you have written down, part with him. Adhering to the rules outlined above, you can not waste time on the person with whom you obviously will not succeed, but quickly begin to search for your man, your ideal partner.
Five signs of a suitable man
- You respect each other. Without respect, relationships are impossible, precisely without mutual respect. A man treats you with respect if:
- ready to compromise
- attentive to your problems and feelings
- feels if something bothers you
- appreciates you and your opinion about something,
- sincerely rejoices at your success.
- He is endowed with those qualities that you appreciate in a man. Make a list of such qualities. First select at least ten traits that are important to you in a man.Write them down in descending order of importance. Look at the list again and cross out those qualities that are less important to you. Thus, it is required to leave 3-5 qualities maximum, which are fundamental and irreplaceable for you. It should be remembered:
- When making a list, do not forget that no one is perfect;
- Having made it, look for a man who will strictly conform to it, because, most likely, another man will not suit you.
- You have the same values. This issue should be discussed. If a man has not formed values, then this is an alarming sign. A psychologically mature man has clear priorities in his life.
- Listen to your intuition. If you, without any reason, have the feeling that this is your man, then it is quite possible that this is the case.
- You can be yourself. If you can stay with yourself next to a man, he does not require that you change your habits, your character, your way of life in his favor, then this man probably suits you.
So we tried to help answer the question that torments you: which man suits me? A test on this topic will help you make the final decision.There are a lot of sites with such questionnaires on the Internet.